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May 25, 2026
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Let’s be real for a second.
They taught us how NOT to get pregnant, but absolutely nothing about what happens when you actually want to.
Growing up, most of us were led to believe that one time was all it would take. One slip-up, one missed pill, one moment of not being careful, and that was it, game over. Every health class, every “talk,” every after-school special drilled the same message: don’t get pregnant.
But here’s what nobody said: getting pregnant isn’t always easy. For many people, it’s one of the hardest things they’ll ever go through.
There’s only about a 15–25% chance of conceiving each cycle, even when everything is working the way it should. And 1 in 6 people worldwide are affected by infertility. Nobody taught us any of that.
Working in reproductive health, I see the fallout of these gaps every single day. People walk into clinics shocked that this is their reality, not because they did anything wrong, but because they were never given the full picture.
Nobody explained what ovulation actually was, not just the word on a diagram, but what it meant for a person’s body and their window of possibility. Nobody talked about egg quality, sperm health, luteal phases, or the fact that age isn’t the only factor. Nobody mentioned that stress, environment, underlying conditions, and plain old biology could make the journey longer, harder, or different than...
With a background in nursing and a genuine passion for care, Jessie supports myStoria members as part of the Concierge team.
