What to Know About Medical Gaslighting

Have you ever left a doctor’s office thinking, Did that just happen? Maybe you were told your pain was “normal”, or that you’re “just stressed.” That’s not in your head, that’s medical gaslighting. And it’s more common than you think.

So, what is medical gaslighting?

Medical gaslighting happens when a provider dismisses your symptoms or questions your experience in a way that makes you second-guess yourself. It's subtle, but real, and it can delay proper diagnosis and treatment.

For people going through fertility struggles, it can feel especially frustrating. You know your body. You know when something’s not right. And yet, you might still be met with eye rolls, rushed appointments, or flat-out disbelief.

Signs You’re Being Dismissed

It might be medical gaslighting if:

• You feel rushed or interrupted when trying to explain symptoms
• You’re told your symptoms are “just in your head”
• Your concerns are brushed off without real explanation
• You leave feeling unheard, confused, or doubting yourself

Here’s What You Can Do

Let’s be clear: this isn’t your fault, and you’re not powerless.

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